The whole Genesis 29 narrative with Jacob and his true sister wives, Rachel and Leah, has always intrigued me. Poor Jacob. Fell head over heels with Rachel. Then gets duped on his wedding night, saddled with the less attractive but older Leah. He has to work for the girls’ father, Laban, 7 more years to get darling Rachel. It just gets weirder from there. It’s polygamy as a cautionary tale.
The family has a long history of deceit and trickery, all the way back to Abraham. When Abraham traveled with his wife, Sarah, he told King Abimelech and the current pharaoh of Egypt that she was his sister. True story: she was his half sister. But she was also his wife. Both kings admired Sarah and wanted her for themselves. Both kings got angry when they realized Abraham had lied to them.
Back to Jacob. After working 20 years for Laban, master manipulator, Jacob wanted to leave. Laban said no. They argued over the increased herds and grandchildren. Then, the weirdest part:
Jacob replied, “You know how hard I’ve worked for you, and how your flocks and herds have grown under my care. You had little indeed before I came, but your wealth has increased enormously. The Lord has blessed you through everything I’ve done. But now, what about me? When can I start providing for my own family?”
“What wages do you want?” Laban asked again.
Jacob replied, “Don’t give me anything. Just do this one thing, and I’ll continue to tend and watch over your flocks. Let me inspect your flocks today and remove all the sheep and goats that are speckled or spotted, along with all the black sheep. Give these to me as my wages. In the future, when you check on the animals you have given me as my wages, you’ll see that I have been honest. If you find in my flock any goats without speckles or spots, or any sheep that are not black, you will know that I have stolen them from you.”
“All right,” Laban replied. “It will be as you say.” But that very day Laban went out and removed the male goats that were streaked and spotted, all the female goats that were speckled and spotted or had white patches, and all the black sheep. He placed them in the care of his own sons, who took them a three-days’ journey from where Jacob was. Meanwhile, Jacob stayed and cared for the rest of Laban’s flock.
Then Jacob took some fresh branches from poplar, almond, and plane trees and peeled off strips of bark, making white streaks on them. Then he placed these peeled branches in the watering troughs where the flocks came to drink, for that was where they mated. And when they mated in front of the white-streaked branches, they gave birth to young that were streaked, speckled, and spotted. Jacob separated those lambs from Laban’s flock. And at mating time he turned the flock to face Laban’s animals that were streaked or black. This is how he built his own flock instead of increasing Laban’s.
Whenever the stronger females were ready to mate, Jacob would place the peeled branches in the watering troughs in front of them. Then they would mate in front of the branches. But he didn’t do this with the weaker ones, so the weaker lambs belonged to Laban, and the stronger ones were Jacob’s. As a result, Jacob became very wealthy, with large flocks of sheep and goats, female and male servants, and many camels and donkeys. – Genesis 30:25-43
The point is that Jacob believed God had blessed him. He was going forward in that belief. He trusted God had a bigger plan all the time. He knew his destiny lay beyond his father-in-law’s estate. I don’t condone Jacob’s tactics, but I admire his faith. What has God spoken to you about your destiny? Do you believe it?